Foreplay is meant to get women in the mood for making love. And if you don't know what you're doing, you may actually turn her off and she won't be receptive to your advances. And if she's not receptive, guess what happens? You are the one who ends up getting the shaft instead of her (if you know what I mean).

There are three topics of foreplay I want to discuss this week. Let's get started:

1. Ear-Tongueing - You may think that women love for you to put your hot and slippery tongue in their ear. I can assure you that most women don't like a slimmy tongue cleaning out their ear.

They will be much more receptive if you will just nibble on her earlobe gently. And for a little more stimulation, breathe in her ear lightly.

2. Sloppy Kissing - Women complain about men who are sloppy kissers and slobber all over their mouths when kissing. When kissing you must control your saliva by swallowing it. Otherwise, you will drool all over her and when you do, most women are going to be turned off by this. Kissing is meant to be tittilate, not to aggrevate!

3. Learn to Slow Down! - Don't rush things when trying to become intimate with women. Women need time to get in the mood for lovemaking. On the other hand, men are ready to make love at the drop of a hat. Linger, touch, stroke, and nibble every erotic part of her body from head to toe.

There was a big hit record in the past by the Pointer Sisters that seems to sum this up perfectly. The name of the song is, "I Want a Man With a Slow Hand."

So, guys I hope these tips will help you to become a better lover. If you are a great lover, women will crave to be with you again and again. They just won't be able to get enough of you! One of the most important skills in succeeding with women is being a good lover. There's an art to being a skilled lover and there's lots of good books and videos out there to help you in this department and we sell a few of them on our website.